....who's the fairest of them all?
Could it be that real beauty lies in the most empathic and compassionate ones?
So says Matthieu Ricard, former genetic researcher, now Buddhist monk and author of Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill.
"You see it on someone's face when she feels in harmony with our deepest nature as human beings, which is basicall peaceful and loving."
Something radiates from within. What is it?
"You're responding to empathy, compassion, an openness to others."
But how does that harmony manifest itself physically? Through subtle expressions, sas Ricard, which we pick up both consciously and unconsciously. Hundreds of almost impreceptible muscular movements constantly communicate our feelings. Think of how a classically beautiful face changes when it's transformed by contempt; less beautiful, right? Maybe even ugly?
Unconditional love transforms a face, too, says Ricard. We identify with that look. It brings up in us a yearning to be loved and to be loving.
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